1. Remove from your environment everything that reminds you of your ex-partner.
Put his or her pictures away, remove that silly wallpaper you have of the two of you from your desktop, delete her telephone number from your mobile phone, and block her messenger id and e-mail address if you can. It’s very important to stop thinking of your ex-partner and start thinking of other things, this way being able to move over instead of falling into a depression.
2. Second, figure out what went wrong.
This way you are certain not to make the same mistake again with future partners. Also think of your relationship as of a beautiful vase and the break-up as breaking the vase. By getting back together you would only glue the vase back but it would not be as beautiful again, would it?
3. Go out with your friends and keep occupied.
This will keep your mind off the relationship and also by going out a lot you increase your chances of finding another partner. And also I’m certain you deserve some fun time out too.
4. If you say let’s still be friends, you’d better mean it.
It is extremely important to be truthful to yourself and also to your ex. Don’t say things you don’t mean. This way you will hurt them even more and I don’t think this is something anybody wants.
5. Work out.
By doing so, you will keep in shape and so increasing your chances to get a date witch could lead to another relationship(who knows?). Also, the gym is a good place to meet new people so you might just find there what you are looking for.
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